Relationships are complicated. And beautiful. And sometimes devastating.
 

Maybe you've lost a pet you're madly in love with, and the world just fell out from under you. Perhaps you are grieving the lack of connection you're feeling to a new pet (relationships take time to develop). These are only the bookends of the range of how we experience grief.  The pet-human bond can be one of the most profoundly powerful relationships we will ever experience, and yet no two connections will ever look the same.  

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When we lose a pet, we lose not only their physical presence, but also a part of ourselves. We lose our source of unconditional love and support, the silent witness to the most personal moments of our lives, and the routine and structure that shaped our days. Their little bodies hold precious memories of our past selves, and losing them can signify the end of a certain chapter in our lives. If you have this connection, it's gutting. You'll find support here.

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On the other end of the spectrum, pet ownership isn't always the idyllic experience we see in Hallmark movies, and there is a distinct feeling of shame in admitting that the relationship isn't going well. Training has the power to transform relationships, but there is an entire emotional aspect we also need to address. ​ It feels taboo, but talking about the hard things can be the only way to improve relationships. And sometimes, no matter how hard you try to make it work, there are irreconcilable differences, and parting ways is the kindest decision for all. ​​​​​​​​​

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 In this no-judgment, no-shaming zone, I  want this to be a place where we can talk about all of the things.​ The things that feel shameful. The things that leave us weighed down with guilt. The things that break our hearts. This includes stigmatized losses, like behavioral euthanasia, tragic accidents, and rehoming a beloved pet. ​

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  Google is an overwhelming place, so in addition to my writing, I use this site as a virtual binder to store my most loved external resources. This is my authentic, hand-curated collection - no affiliate relationships, sponsorships, or kickbacks here.  We all have something that brings meaning to our lives- this is mine. ​​​ ​

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While I have a clinical background, I am not a professional, and none of this should be considered professional advice. The best way I can describe my relationship with this site is as a hobby. My most honest writing emerges from personal experience. As a writer, closest to my heart is a “Tell Your TAIL” page I designed that encourages writing and other creative expressions to facilitate healing and  keep your pet's memory alive.​

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Welcome in, and take a look around!

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With love from Baltimore, 

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Liz

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